So ur in love......and u got engaged last year.... and u wanna get married as soon as u can ... to prove that you are loyal to ur future spouse and "to show" how much u love him/her..... and so u got married......
But to me... marriage is not something u can joke about... its something that is fckin serious.... and u cant just get married without considering many things that might come your way......
1st of all... u get married... and u want your wedding to be as grand as u can... U want the best gown....u want the best car to send u to church.... and u spend so much money on food...and alcohol ... U used more best-mans and bridesmaid,u used more flower girls...more than any other couple ever had so that u can be different... so that u can be better...resulting in more money to be used on 'angpaos'..... U hire gong players.... live band...karaoke set..... U want to do this so that people would talk about what they had ..and what they saw at ur wedding... the glamour... the wealth and the exclusiveness shown during ur wedding....
But what happens after all the party,and after all the display?
U end up summarizing the amount of money that you have spent for the whole wedding celebration..... the average money lost to organize such weddings nowadays is 50-60K.... wtf??? If u do business with that kind of money,u can generate more!!!! and u can get married 4 of 5 times to your husband or wife already.... hadoi!!!
Of course ur gonna say " Im only getting married once..... I want it to be perfect..." are u fucking stupid? its not about the wedding !!! its the long run! its about the marriage!!! sampai ka 50thn kamu kawin? atau baru 2-3 tahun suda bepisah pasal tidak ngam sama gaya laki kamu? bini kamu?
And Let me ask u something... after u got over with the devastation of seeing how much money u spent on ur wedding..... You(your wife) gets pregnant.... ROCK BOTTOM!!! Now u are reaLLLLLLy thinking... "Oh my gosh!! Am I ready for this!? Am I financially stable to raise a kid/s? Can I wake up 2-3 times in the morning to feed my son/daughter? Can I go to work without enough sleep time? wiLL i falL asleep at work?" nah...... baru mau berfikir? bodoh...........
Okay...So ur salary went up... and now u can afford to buy milk and diapers for ur kid/s....at the same time u can pay biLLs at home... car installment....but,Do u have any fuckin idea of how to raise ur kid? What to teach and what not to teach them? Are u gonna raise them with the way your parents taught u when u were growing up???
Semua ini kita mau fikir tau..... Bukan sa suka2 condemn orang yang mau kawin... its a good thing.....according to Christian teachings....Its one of the holy sacraments..... at least ur gonna be having sex without committing sin....... But think about what i've said.... and be prepared dari semua segi.... financially,mentally,physically and spiritualy whenever u even think of marriage.... THE END :)
About Me
- Velarry Suan
- I am 5'7 and I dont really update myself with my weight. The last time I checked, I was 70kg. I have tan skin,brown eyes,i cut my hair with size 1 twice a week and etc.Well, I am just an ordinary person. Speaking of ordinary, I dont have any disabled forearms and my face is perfectly fine. I am straight and so far, I dont think I have any enemies. I am trying my best to be a good citizen of God and also to my country. I want to have a better life and hopefully someday my dream wiLL come true.
Saturday, January 8, 2011
Monday, October 18, 2010
Yup..... Life Sux
Dont u just wish ur a totaL-super hopeless-Loser sometimes? Somebody who doesnt fckin know anything? Somebody whos is super stupid?
All these little talents n all this little knowledge is fckin useless.. U need to be fckin good at something in order for u to stand out..... Fck the term sikit2 lama2 jadi bukit man...... U NEED BUKIT!!! U DONT HAVE TIME FOR SIKIT2!!
ur either a zero,or a hero man.... There's no such thing as half zero-half hero
All these little talents n all this little knowledge is fckin useless.. U need to be fckin good at something in order for u to stand out..... Fck the term sikit2 lama2 jadi bukit man...... U NEED BUKIT!!! U DONT HAVE TIME FOR SIKIT2!!
ur either a zero,or a hero man.... There's no such thing as half zero-half hero
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Mari belajar memaki
1.Pukima - Ini kamu tau suda kan?
2.Pukitiang - Pookie tiang rumah kau...
3.Pukiabu - Pookie aunty kau
4.Pukimai - Pookie uncle kau
5.Pukising - Ini sa nda tau apa maksud..
6.Pukidog - pookie anjing kau
7.Pukinek - pookie nenek kau
8.Pukitai - pookie tahi kau
Kalau anda bencikan seseorang,pastikan anda maki setiap hal berkaitan orang itu...
HAHAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!
2.Pukitiang - Pookie tiang rumah kau...
3.Pukiabu - Pookie aunty kau
4.Pukimai - Pookie uncle kau
5.Pukising - Ini sa nda tau apa maksud..
6.Pukidog - pookie anjing kau
7.Pukinek - pookie nenek kau
8.Pukitai - pookie tahi kau
Kalau anda bencikan seseorang,pastikan anda maki setiap hal berkaitan orang itu...
HAHAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Whatta fck is wrong with Indonesia???
I heard Indonesia is going into war with Malaysia about the 3 Indonesian marine officers that were arrested. Tidak abis2 oo kan? duLu durang claim tarian Pendet kana curi,masuk dalam Iklan Malaysia Truly Asia.....
I've said this .... and Im gonna say it again.... WHY DO THEY HAVE TO BE SO OFFENSIVE AGAINST THEIR OWN RACE???!!! BUGIS MALAYSIA dari mana?? bukan dari Indonesia??? Jawa Malaysia dari mana? bukan dari Indonesia???
Maybe they have forgotten about Parameswara.. The outcast who founded Tanah Melayu... Keturunan Majapahit(Indonesia).....
China tidak pernah claim culture durang kna curi oLeh orang2 Cina Malaysia.....
India tidak pernah claim culture durang kna curi oLeh orang India Malaysia.....
Brunei tidak pernah claim culture durang kna curi oLeh orang2 Brunei Malaysia (Sabah)...
Ini satu negara sja yang childish ni... mmg durang ni di lahirkan bodoh kaLi...suda la dtg negeri urang jadi PTI...suda tu mau claim ini ..cLaim itu....
I know im not in any position to say anything about this...... Im not Malay (Im Dusun) ..... but If I had to choose wether to side Malaysian or Indonesia... I'd rather right for Malaysia.... Fck it....
I've said this .... and Im gonna say it again.... WHY DO THEY HAVE TO BE SO OFFENSIVE AGAINST THEIR OWN RACE???!!! BUGIS MALAYSIA dari mana?? bukan dari Indonesia??? Jawa Malaysia dari mana? bukan dari Indonesia???
Maybe they have forgotten about Parameswara.. The outcast who founded Tanah Melayu... Keturunan Majapahit(Indonesia).....
China tidak pernah claim culture durang kna curi oLeh orang2 Cina Malaysia.....
India tidak pernah claim culture durang kna curi oLeh orang India Malaysia.....
Brunei tidak pernah claim culture durang kna curi oLeh orang2 Brunei Malaysia (Sabah)...
Ini satu negara sja yang childish ni... mmg durang ni di lahirkan bodoh kaLi...suda la dtg negeri urang jadi PTI...suda tu mau claim ini ..cLaim itu....
I know im not in any position to say anything about this...... Im not Malay (Im Dusun) ..... but If I had to choose wether to side Malaysian or Indonesia... I'd rather right for Malaysia.... Fck it....
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Monday, August 9, 2010
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